The other day, this subject matter pop up during our casual conversation about my maternal Grandma "Po Po". Ever since Aunt L passed away, Po Po has stayed with my elder uncle. Now they are talking about who should be taking care of Po Po for long term. I really do not understand why this is always an issue in most of the chinese family. There are so many brothers and sisters, and yet none of them are willing to take care of her willingly.
Suddenly, I have this thoughts troubling my mind. How do I feel about having my parents to stay with me when they are old and immobile?
The truth, I'm abit afraid of that day to come. I'm not sure how will I handle this situation especially with my dad. Mum is not demandful like my dad and more positive thinking. She adapts to the situation rather than complain. Dad will do the other way round. I feel that he is getting more and more selfish as his aged.
I hope I will find my peace of this thoughts soon. God you shall guide me to do the right things...
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